Category: Ask Carolyn

I lost my job. I filed a motion for reduction of my child support, as my unemployment check is inadequate to allow me to live and to pay the ordered amount of child support. I am doing my best, but my best is not enough income right now. When will my motion be heard? I cannot hang on much longer, as my cash reserves are low. Will I be safe at the Greensboro courthouse? I also worry about COVID-19 and public gatherings.

My ex-fiancé and I ended our relationship.  He also took the engagement ring. I’m still paying for the engagement ring on my credit. He hasn’t made a single payment on it and the debt is in my name. He won’t give it back. Is there anything I can do?

The domestic violence protective order (DVPO) filed against me has expired. I have not returned to my home nor have I reached out to my spouse. I was unaware of what was happening until it was too late. But it was only to get possession of our home, which I believe is illegal. With the COVID-19, what should I do now, to make sure that I do not lose my rights and or have it seem as if I have abandoned my home or my property, that is presently in my spouse’s possession (temporary)?

I lost my job due to COVID-19 and now am on unemployment. I am under a child support order to pay the mother of our two children $900 per month and I cannot do it. The money is just not there for now.

How can I possibly navigate custody exchanges and joint parenting during this pandemic? My ex is not adhering to the social distancing. He is having play dates with his girlfriend’s children and my children. Can I get emergency custody away from the father to protect the children from COVID 19?