I have a court date coming up. I am fearful about being questioned by the other attorney, who seems like a bully to me. The case is about the custody of my child. How do I handle the bully lawyer when he asks me questions?
Being a witness is not always easy, but there are some guidelines that, if practiced, will make your experience better. Your credibility will be enhanced. Many witnesses are confused about their “job” as a witness. The job of a witness is not to anticipate where the attorney is going with the questions. There are four rules of being a witness.
Rule one: Listen to the question. Sounds easy, right, but this is the hardest part. The classic question is: “Do you know what time it is?” What is your answer? Many folks look at their watches and give the time, but that is not the question. “Do you know the time” is a “yes” or “no” answer. Then the witness should wait for the next question.
Rule two: Understand the question. Make sure you know what you are answering. Does the question have two parts? Compound questions may be objected to by your attorney, so if you hear the objection: “Objection: Compound Question,” take note that the question has two parts. If the judge allows the question, repeat back the first half of the question with the answer, and then repeat the last half with the answer.
Rule three: Answer. Start with a yes, no or I don’t know, if that question asks for that type of answer. Then you may explain your answer if an explanation is necessary.
Rule four: Shut up after you have answered. Cross-examination is not the time for a non-stop answer.
With practice with these rules, you will be a credible witness.
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