By Rhino Times reader Austin Morris
I was faffing about today, examining the shoe selection at Reidsville’s Wal-Mart, wondering if I should eschew my usual $120 boots for a more affordable option, when around the corner suddenly came a waist height object that drew my eyes. A young boy in a child’s wheelchair, staring up at me with a beautiful blue-eyed smile. “Hello!” I said. “Hi” came the cheerful response. Fair haired and freckled, an open and innocent face, around nine or ten years old, greeting a complete stranger with a ray of sunlight. His skinny little legs seemed bound together somehow, but he disappeared as quickly as he had appeared. What a wonderful attitude for a boy with such a crippling disability, I thought.
Poignant. May we count our blessings and be as good to our neighbors, friends, and family as we able.
Whatt happened to the days of kindness. I see more and more anger when I go places. It’s just wrong. Makes you wonder what is so horrible in people’s lives that they have to treat others so horribly. I drove by the cemetery yesterday and had to sit at the light. There was a guy sitting in his car in the cemetery with the door open and he was screaming at someone. It was unbelievable. Being kind to others is precious. It’s wonderful and it makes your day feel amazing. Too bad others don’t see life that way. I get annoyed like everyone else but my humanity refuses to take it out on others. Be kind to people. It costs you nothing. It gives you happiness.
Rockingham Community College creative writing class student –
Thank you. I have been told that I write well, but if any credit is due, it’s due to the English masters at Leeds Grammar School in the late 70’s. Those masters and that school gave me a great education, as the school has been doing since 1552.
Austin, I get what you’re saying, it’s hard to see these kids go through life this way. We raised a child with spinabifida , and we had two other kids after her. People who have never experienced raising a special needs child don’t know how difficult it is, not just physically but mentally and emotionally. We raised that child as if nothing was wrong with her because if she was to be able to take care of herself after we are gone. Yes it was tough discipline and she cried and didn’t get things just because she was in a wheelchair. And yes I assure you we cried as much as she did. With this tough love to our daughter came getting a job, learning to drive and renting a house and living on her on. She got up every day she got up at 4 am to get ready for work at 8am. She sent several messages to her mom and was very vocal about the tough love she received helped and prepared her for life. These kids are hard to raise for sure and they test you just like kids without disability. These folks that you seen could have had more hardships on their minds that day other than this child. Life doesn’t stop just because you have a special needs child. I totally get what your saying felt, but I also get their side too. Show the love to all. ➡️
I respect you and your insight, but maybe you just had to be there.
Trump doesn’t need weak kids in this country. Toughen up or leave. MAGA!!
False flag comment.
Austin,
While I’m not sure of your age, based on your approach and reaction to this experience I’m guessing you are close to mine (72).
Unfortunately society is, more and more, turning to this sort of thing and IMO does not bode well for it. Do I lose my temper with my grandchildren? I’m human (although some may dispute that), so yes, I do. But after making the necessary corrections I revert back to what I hope is the example they should follow.
My reaction to the young man, regardless of what THEY might have thought or said would have been “hang in there son. There’s always a new day.”
I call that exercising my right of free speech to whomever I wish whenever I wish.
I suspect your comment crept into his mind, and he found a hiding place where it would stay to comfort him for years to come.
I was having a terrible, horrible, very bad day years ago while visiting my parents in CA. I was there for a semi-yearly journey to help as my mom had been injured a few years before in a fall resulting in quadriplegia. I’d gone to a local coffee shop to sit quietly and do research on my computer, ponder, and as I left I felt defeated being helpless to make any meaningful change to their lives. I didn’t realize how upset I’d been until walking to my car, a man walking through the parking lot toward me stopped and asked if I was all right. I looked up at him and started crying, telling him I was. He said, “It will be better eventually.” “Yes, I know, just now.” He put his hand on my arm, smiled, and walked to the coffee shop. His kind words have stayed with me for years. His acknowledgment of my distress, and reminder that bad times pass, was what I needed at the time. He didn’t intrude, just gently shared sympathetic encouragement.
That’s what you did. It means a lot to someone in deep emotional pain.
I hope you’re right, Deborah. The boy looked so alone, so full of despair, so very sad. The old people seemed completely indifferent to his suffering, both physical and emotional.
I just wanted to lend him a shred of encouragement. All I could think of in the spur of the moment was “It’ll be alright – in the end”. Perhaps it will give him hope that his life will get better. I do hope so, because he seemed to have such a beautiful sunny personality when he first happily said “Hi!” to this complete stranger.
Say a prayer for him, if you believe. I did.
I wonder if he is in the Foster care system ? . I think I’d have to research to find out who this precious child is. Maybe he needs some intervention?
That encounter would haunt me!
I did, and will.
So who is whining about their station life now?
Who was whining
Yes Rebel, I don’t know what Miller’s talking about.
I really don’t. But it is an open-ended statement.
Sorry buddy, I still have no idea what you mean.
Don’t know what you’re talking about.
Neither does Rebel or anyone else.
Are you getting Alzheimer’s, old man ?